A very peculiar thing happened this year in the Martin household as we decorated for Christmas. The boxes were down from the attic and we were all set to take the family out to pick out a Christmas tree, when we realized we had no idea where we were going to put it. The birth of a third child this year has crowded things a bit in our living spaces. Lots of stuff comes with babies and children. We tuck them in the corner, we shift things under the ottoman to accommodate it all. So there we were scratching our heads there that day, wondering how we’d solve this problem, wondering if there were maybe another room in the house that could become Christmas central this year until we finally realized we had only one real option: dismantling the baby’s Pack ‘N Play to so that we’d have a place for the tree. If we needed somewhere safe and secure in which to lay him in the month of December…well, sorry kid.
And
there, you’ve heard it: we removed a manger because there was no room for Christmas.
Don’t worry! It’ll come back, of course, once the tree is taken to the dump and all vestiges of the holidays are cleaned away, but the irony of what we were doing was profound. One of the main messages of this night—the beginning point of our Savior’s story—is that although things were crowded, a place was found to lay the baby. In all the rearranging that must have been going on—the shuffling around, the last minute cleaning up, the pressure to make sure Mary was doing OK—the priority was finding somewhere the child could sleep and not be trampled on.
Don’t worry! It’ll come back, of course, once the tree is taken to the dump and all vestiges of the holidays are cleaned away, but the irony of what we were doing was profound. One of the main messages of this night—the beginning point of our Savior’s story—is that although things were crowded, a place was found to lay the baby. In all the rearranging that must have been going on—the shuffling around, the last minute cleaning up, the pressure to make sure Mary was doing OK—the priority was finding somewhere the child could sleep and not be trampled on.
Rearranging.
Finding a place. The world seems to be particularly full of it these days, and
it’s not just Christmas trees and trying to fabricate an authentically festive
holiday, whatever that is. A recent election in this country promises us that
the government is going to be rearranged. Some are hopeful, others are not. Outside
of our country, the world is seeing record numbers of refugees get rearranged due
to wars and ethnic conflict. This creates anxiety for many, not the least of
which are the ones with small children who are caught between the bombs in
their own family rooms and the borders that say, “Nope. No room for you here.” The
rising threat of global terrorism causes uncomfortable rearranging, too. “Things
don’t seem as safe as they used to be,” we muse as we hustle through airport
security, rearranging the boxes on the conveyor belt, and as we reorganize the
ways we assemble in public.
When
we step back we find that so much of life is about rearranging and finding
space, often at the last minute: The massive downsizing to make living in the
memory care facility more manageable. The moving around of a week’s events you
thought were set in stone in order to make room for a funeral service and
burial. The ways we end up having to shelve our joy and relaxation in order to
make space for grief or recovery.
God
apparently doesn’t need detailed daily planners and careful clockwork to make
an entrance. God didn’t then, and God doesn’t now. We may rearrange, reschedule,
reposition, delay and dismantle, but grace won’t. It finds room. It makes
itself welcome.
a first-century Pack 'N Play |
In
fact, this place where Jesus is born may have just been a regular first-century
Middle Eastern house. Families lived—that is, slept, ate, worked, raised
children—in one big room connected by the same roof to the area where the
livestock were kept. The manger was a stone feed trough that marked the
separation between where the humans lived and where the animals rested.
layout of a typical first-century house |
Of
course, we don’t know exactly how it all went down, or what the real meaning of
that ambiguous Greek word for “inn” is, but what we do know is that in Luke’s
story of Jesus that particular word appears one more time. Years later, Jesus
and his disciples are in Jerusalem and he tells them to go looking for a place where
they can celebrate the Passover. Jesus instructs them:
10 “Listen, when you have entered the city, a man carrying a jar of water
will meet you; follow him into the house he enters 11 and
say to the owner of the house, ‘The teacher asks you, “Where is the guest
room, where I may eat the Passover with my disciples?”’ 12 He
will show you a large room upstairs, already furnished. Make
preparations for us there” (Luke 22:10-12)
More
rearranging, more last minute readying, and
what do you know? The type of place
that is too crowded at Jesus’ birth is the same type of place where Jesus’ has
his last supper. As it turns out, from birth to death, our God’s life
among us is framed by borrowed space,
by last-minute rearranging. And that includes our preoccupied lives.
"Nativity," Master of Hohenfurth (1350-70) |
“Nails, spear, shall pierce him through,
The Cross be borne for me, for you.”
The Cross be borne for me, for you.”
The
part about the inn or the living area, the manger, the Upper Room, well, it’s
all prologue to the big rearranging that God has in mind: He comes and finds a
way so that we will know the Way.
And
so this day and every day, in this room and in all your rooms, in every bit of
rearranging you find yourself doing, happy or sad, be prepared for the God of
the manger and the God of the cross to leave a note, to set a table, to make a
place for you and find a way for faith to be born again.
Thanks
be to God!
The Reverend Phillip W.
Martin, Jr.